FATHERHOOD

For most of us, our first father is God. Most of the world considers God as their father, or rather call God as their father. God is father to all in the family to believe. What about biological fathers? How does one become a good father? What benchmarks do we measure the goodness of a father?

This is a subject for discussion and application of thought. Who is the final judge of the goodness of the father? Mother? Children? Community? What qualities should a man have to be called a good father? These questions result in a larger debate.

Can a judge of the goodness of her husband’s mother as a father? Judgement which can depend on so many probabilities. What is its benchmark? How is her father?What faith is he? Does this fit with her beliefs? How much she loves her husband and her children? When it comes to taking sides, whose side will he take? Whether it be a well thought out decision or one colored by many other factors?

Can the good judge his own father? What may be true according to him, may be wrong according to her children? He was carrying psychological baggage and many times may be prejudging and expect a response. Generation gap plays a larger role.As the world progresses, priorities, tastes, values, everything is changing. Therefore man himself could not pronounce himself as a good father. Children will deny that, if he did not accept their beliefs. Which child will call his father a good father, if father has set ideas about partying, relationships, studies, etc.

Can the children judge their father? What is difficult to believe. Children will want to a father who not only disagree with their ideas, but supports them in every possible way of enjoying life. What if a child so that he believes that enjoying life is more important than studying for exams?

If we think more about this subject, will generate more confusion. What to think about my father and how one becomes a good father? The best way out might be to accept the generation gap, listening to the children before giving the order, have a fair debate on all important issues, and tell the children exactly on the values ??that will decide the final act. After doing all of this, one just has to do its job and leave the rest of prayer. And before trying to become a good father, the first should be a good person. A drug addict can never be a good father, or a liar habit.

MOTHERHOOD

When we think about the mother, what kind of image we are in our thoughts? A woman who would sacrifice you all the comforts and will work relentlessly at home without expecting monetary reward, only to take care of her children. Is this true?Motherhood means sacrifice and pain from day one of conception. But this brings pain and sacrifice a beautiful feeling developed in a woman after she discovered that her children are happy and healthy. That is the only reward he wants from his children.And it is the mother.

This applies not only to humans but all mothers of the animal kingdom. A female tiger will attack you and kill you if you dare to get close to her children. Every animal mother teaches her children the art of living in their world. Every mother is ready to go to any length to save her children. A woman began to dream about her son shortly after fertilization. Many pregnant women talk to the unborn child. They feel very comfortable doing that. They plan for the future of children, food, education, clothing, shelter everything. From the poorest to the richest mothers, we find that the sense of protecting her progeny are the most common trait.

For the mother, her son extension. This is not so for fathers. But the mother treats the child as the same as themselves. Why? Nature gives this love to the mother so the specie continues. Special mother. In several studies have found that babies stop crying when they hear the recorded voice of their mother’s womb. They were protected there and when they come in the world, they were surprised at the difference. Uterine sound to tell them that things have not changed so much and they feel comforted. That is one reason why the magic touch. The more a mother touches her children physically, the more they feel loved. They get the assurance of protection from the mother.

A child should always feel indebted to her mother / because no one else, including the victim’s father so much as a mother to take us. Mother is compassion and for young children, mothers are God.